Wednesday, December 30, 2009
Matroishka Dolls
What is that you ask? It's those darling nesting dolls that are made in some European and Asian countries. I am bidding on a set brought back from Russia by a family that was there adopting one of their children. The money that is raised by these auctions (there are 3) will go to help finance a trip to Eastern Europe to provided much needed surgeries for children that would otherwise have little to no hope. For more information on Little Loaves and Fishes click here. For more info on the darling Matroishka Dolls, click here.
Tuesday, December 29, 2009
One of the ugly things that can happen in adoption
I have several internet friend's that have adopted children with Down Syndrome, and like us, have the desire to adopt more than one. Charissa and John are one of those couples. They adopted Ava from Ukraine and were hoping to bring home another daughter from Africa. They found out that this little one had two siblings, so after much prayer decided to adopt all three. There were many questions that they had that did not get answered by their adoptions agency, Celebrate Children International (CCI). I will just link to her blog and you can read their terrible ordeal for yourself and in Charissa's own words.
Wednesday, December 23, 2009
Rejoicing among sorrow
Today a real advocate for children, primarily orphans, was called home to be with his Lord. I am copying a post from a friend's blog, Meredith, she said it beautifully. If you have a chance, visit their blog and offer a word of encouragement to Renee, Derek's wife and their ten children.
"The Loux Family... prayer request
From the beginning of our time in Ukraine we were made aware of a family who was coming to adopt the little Misha. They were a family that saw so many obstacles in their process and continued to overcome them, but they were the real reason that I ever saw a need in the Ukraine program and stepped in to Reece's Rainbow. The Loux family completed their adoption and brought home three sons all with special needs. They almost simultaneously adopted 2 girls from the Marshall Islands. This family of faith and with the biggest heart for the orphan that I have ever met... has met today with tragedy.
Derek Loux, when driving home from a conference to learn about combating child trafficking, died in a car accident when his vehicle hit black ice.
Renee (his wife) and their ten children along with his brother John and wife Tracie and family are now mourning the loss of their husband, brother, father... and we mourn the loss of a wonderful friend and advocate.
Please be in prayer for the Loux family. This kind of loss is difficult any time of year, but two days before Christmas is so much harder...
http://www.louxfamilyblog.com/ "
"The Loux Family... prayer request
From the beginning of our time in Ukraine we were made aware of a family who was coming to adopt the little Misha. They were a family that saw so many obstacles in their process and continued to overcome them, but they were the real reason that I ever saw a need in the Ukraine program and stepped in to Reece's Rainbow. The Loux family completed their adoption and brought home three sons all with special needs. They almost simultaneously adopted 2 girls from the Marshall Islands. This family of faith and with the biggest heart for the orphan that I have ever met... has met today with tragedy.
Derek Loux, when driving home from a conference to learn about combating child trafficking, died in a car accident when his vehicle hit black ice.
Renee (his wife) and their ten children along with his brother John and wife Tracie and family are now mourning the loss of their husband, brother, father... and we mourn the loss of a wonderful friend and advocate.
Please be in prayer for the Loux family. This kind of loss is difficult any time of year, but two days before Christmas is so much harder...
http://www.louxfamilyblog.com/ "
Tuesday, December 22, 2009
Slacker
Yes, I admit, I've been a slacker when it comes to my blog. I've been reading others and keeping up fairly well, just not writing on my own, I guess it would take too much thought on my part. It's not because I don't have enough going on, haha, couldn't be further from the truth, just can't organize my thoughts, so I'll just post randomly as things fly into and out of my head.
The living room is painted and Bob is starting on the dining room...I know,three days before I have to have a big Christmas dinner in there, but I refuse to become anxious over it...really I do, lol.
The tree is up and that's about all we can say about it, oh and the lights are on...maybe today we'll decorate it. I refuse to be anxious that the tree isn't done three days before Christmas...really I do.
I have to go to the mall today to pick up gifts that are only located there, did I mention I hate the mall? Even on a nice quiet day I dread it, so I refuse to be anxious that it is only three days before Christmas and it will be like a zoo...really I do.
I have to pick up some toys from one friend (an hour away, hoping to meet half way) and deliver them to another friend so she can bless her children with them for Christmas, and I refuse to be anxious that there are only three days before Christmas....really I do.
Baking....hmmm, knew I forgot something, turkey from freezer to fridge, stocking stuffers need bought, presents need wrapped, bring Anah to therapy/school, continue to potty train new puppy, bring presents to teachers and therapists....only three days to Christmas and I refuse to be anxious...really I do.
"Phl 4:6 Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God."
Ahhh, yes. Lord, I am thankful that You lowered Yourself to come down to earth in human form, to be born of a poor virgin, to be raised as a simple child, to have an earthly ministry that changed the world, to be persecuted for our sins, to suffer, die, be buried, and RISE again, to ascend into heaven and sit at the right hand of God the Father, to send the Holy Spirit to be our comforter and to promise to come back for us. Yes, Lord, I am truly thankful and shall be anxious for nothing because I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.
Lord, I am thankful for: You, my Godly husband, my children, my parents, my family, my friends, my church family, the roof over my head, the food that I eat, the many provisions that you give me that are more than I need and certainly much more than I deserve. Yes Lord, You have made me a blessed/thankful woman. I pray that I can grow more in You every day, knowing I am unworthy, yet thankful that You are greater than my unbelief, weakness, self doubt and anxieties.
Praying you all have a blessed Christmas, I know I will, and I will be anxious for nothing!!
The living room is painted and Bob is starting on the dining room...I know,three days before I have to have a big Christmas dinner in there, but I refuse to become anxious over it...really I do, lol.
The tree is up and that's about all we can say about it, oh and the lights are on...maybe today we'll decorate it. I refuse to be anxious that the tree isn't done three days before Christmas...really I do.
I have to go to the mall today to pick up gifts that are only located there, did I mention I hate the mall? Even on a nice quiet day I dread it, so I refuse to be anxious that it is only three days before Christmas and it will be like a zoo...really I do.
I have to pick up some toys from one friend (an hour away, hoping to meet half way) and deliver them to another friend so she can bless her children with them for Christmas, and I refuse to be anxious that there are only three days before Christmas....really I do.
Baking....hmmm, knew I forgot something, turkey from freezer to fridge, stocking stuffers need bought, presents need wrapped, bring Anah to therapy/school, continue to potty train new puppy, bring presents to teachers and therapists....only three days to Christmas and I refuse to be anxious...really I do.
"Phl 4:6 Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God."
Ahhh, yes. Lord, I am thankful that You lowered Yourself to come down to earth in human form, to be born of a poor virgin, to be raised as a simple child, to have an earthly ministry that changed the world, to be persecuted for our sins, to suffer, die, be buried, and RISE again, to ascend into heaven and sit at the right hand of God the Father, to send the Holy Spirit to be our comforter and to promise to come back for us. Yes, Lord, I am truly thankful and shall be anxious for nothing because I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.
Lord, I am thankful for: You, my Godly husband, my children, my parents, my family, my friends, my church family, the roof over my head, the food that I eat, the many provisions that you give me that are more than I need and certainly much more than I deserve. Yes Lord, You have made me a blessed/thankful woman. I pray that I can grow more in You every day, knowing I am unworthy, yet thankful that You are greater than my unbelief, weakness, self doubt and anxieties.
Praying you all have a blessed Christmas, I know I will, and I will be anxious for nothing!!
Friday, December 11, 2009
Need a camcorder or GPS?
I know I would LOVE a camcorder to take pics of the kids! So, I entered in for a chance to win it! I actually got 3 entries for a $10 donation and 1 for mentioning the fundraiser!
What is the fundraiser for you ask? Well, I'll tell you, it's to help the Jones family bring home their "Little One". All Amanda can share about "Little One" is that he is a boy and has Down Syndrome. More info will follow as she is allowed to share about him.
Adoption is COSTLY, believe me, we know full well, so in an effort to help with that, Amanda is having a fundraiser to get the last of the money they need to complete their adoption.
You can enter to get a chance to win either the camcorder or GPS, or enter to win both! Wouldn't that be an awesome Christmas present for yourself or someone else?
So head on over to Amanda's blog and check it out, you won't be sorry!
What is the fundraiser for you ask? Well, I'll tell you, it's to help the Jones family bring home their "Little One". All Amanda can share about "Little One" is that he is a boy and has Down Syndrome. More info will follow as she is allowed to share about him.
Adoption is COSTLY, believe me, we know full well, so in an effort to help with that, Amanda is having a fundraiser to get the last of the money they need to complete their adoption.
You can enter to get a chance to win either the camcorder or GPS, or enter to win both! Wouldn't that be an awesome Christmas present for yourself or someone else?
So head on over to Amanda's blog and check it out, you won't be sorry!
Big News
Anyone that knows me well, knows that I am a HUGE supporter of homeschooling. For most kids I think it can't be beat! I didn't get the opportunity to do that with my oldest three (unsaved first spouse), but was determined to do it with my youngest three. That was until Anah.
I love my daughter with all my heart, as does her Daddy, that was why several months ago we started praying earnestly as to what would be best for Anah. Of course, I convinced myself that it was STILL homeschooling, I could teach her all her life skills and everything she needed to know, I still can, but.... The Lord put something else on my heart. He showed me that Anah did not respond to typical children, her siblings, church friends, homeschool co-op friends, children that she is with in the elementary school that she goes to for therapy, family and friends children; she only REALLY responded to other children with Down Syndrome. At first I didn't think anything of it, I just thought she was that way with Jonathan because he is a "baby" and her brother, but then I saw it, she started to play and interact with my niece and her friend M., both with DS.
I watched as she colored with them, played games with them and even had pretend play with them!!! I know that may not seem like much to some of you, but anyone with a child with SN's knows, these things can be huge! I heard her giggle, run off with to play and hold hands with them. I saw her face light up and true joy. How could I deprive her of that?! Oh sure, she can have fun with R and M, but how often is that, a couple hours at most a week or so? She deserves joy, fun, laughter and friends of her own that are like her.
With that thought in place I started to review our options: we have a program through the school district, it is a contained classroom in a typical public school (not our school, one 30-35 mins away). She would be in either a class with other developmentally delayed children, only two with DS, or a class with physically and developmentally delayed children that had one child with DS. She would be in that school for the remainder of this year, then d/t her age and the NYS law saying there can only be an age span of 3 years in any classroom (irrelevant of the developmental age) Anah would have to be moved up to a middle school next year! A typical middle school with a contained classroom! NOT happening! Firstly, she is not familiar with schooling at all, secondly she comes from an institution and this will be strange for her, thirdly, she is not proficient in the language, fourthly, she is nonverbal, fifthly, she is mentally delayed, sixthly, she is the size of a second grader!!! NOT happening!! Did I say that already?
To be fair, I did tour both facilities, I am not saying anything negative about the programs, on the contrary, for a child that is used to school, English and has not been traumatized by institutions, it is wonderful! The programs themselves and the teachers and aids were terrific, it just wouldn't work for Anah.
So then we have School of the Holy Childhood , that is where my niece goes. I was the one who encouraged my sister to go on the tour there, I have been there several times and know it is an AWESOME place! It is a private school specifically for children with developmental delays. It goes from 5years old up to 21, then they can transition into the adult work program there. It is the happiest place you could imagine. As soon as you walk in the door you know there is something special going on. Every adult and child is happy. It is common to see hugs and high fives all the way up and down the hall. Laughter rings out yet there is so much to be learned! The children have a NYS certified education program for their age, which is then modified to their special needs. There are ST, OT, PT, MT, crafts, swimming and every teacher is a special ed. teacher. The classrooms are technically 12-1-1 (12 students, 1 teacher, 1 aide) but several students in each room have a one on one and the ST, OT, PT are in the classroom for part of every day, rotating through, so there is usually a minimum on average of 12-4, more in the younger grades. If you go to the website, you will be blessed.
We toured that school this pas Friday, the other two this past Wens. and I had Anah's CSE meeting this Tuesday. The head of the CSE called me Mon. morning and asked me what we had thought of the programs (she was referring to the Wens tours, she didn't know about the Fri. tour until I told her) I explained my concerns and our desire for Anah to go to SHC. During our CSE meeting on Tues., she asked me to tell the board/committee, whatever you want to call them, about our tours. Anah's teacher, ST and school Psychologist were there and know Anah, as was a SE teacher, they all said they were so excited for Anah and how she responded during her tour of SHC (which by the way was with joy, happiness and dragging me and her daddy around!). As soon as I was done the head of the CSE said "Well, I'd like to officially recommend that Anah go to SHC". You could have knocked me over with a feather!!!
I had expected a battle, everyone else I've ever heard of has really had to fight for their school districts to pay for such services. It costs the school district about $25,000/yr/child to attend there, then they also have to pay for busing them there! It's a 45min drive and she would be the only student on the bus. Actually, Bob and I have pretty much decided we will probably drive her and pick her up. So you can only imagine my utter shock and elation when I heard that!
I filled out and handed in the application for Anah to attend SHC, got the referral from the school, now we just have to have the school eval. Anah and PRAY she can get one of the four slots that are available for the whole school next year! We do have a fairly good chance however, we have our application in early and our school district is supportive, so I am hopeful. Plus, I know whenever she is accepted, even if it isn't for next year, that it is all in God's timing.
I guess I can't be considered a 100% homeschooling mama, but I can be considered a 100% child focused mama and THAT is what God has called all of us parents to be.
I love my daughter with all my heart, as does her Daddy, that was why several months ago we started praying earnestly as to what would be best for Anah. Of course, I convinced myself that it was STILL homeschooling, I could teach her all her life skills and everything she needed to know, I still can, but.... The Lord put something else on my heart. He showed me that Anah did not respond to typical children, her siblings, church friends, homeschool co-op friends, children that she is with in the elementary school that she goes to for therapy, family and friends children; she only REALLY responded to other children with Down Syndrome. At first I didn't think anything of it, I just thought she was that way with Jonathan because he is a "baby" and her brother, but then I saw it, she started to play and interact with my niece and her friend M., both with DS.
I watched as she colored with them, played games with them and even had pretend play with them!!! I know that may not seem like much to some of you, but anyone with a child with SN's knows, these things can be huge! I heard her giggle, run off with to play and hold hands with them. I saw her face light up and true joy. How could I deprive her of that?! Oh sure, she can have fun with R and M, but how often is that, a couple hours at most a week or so? She deserves joy, fun, laughter and friends of her own that are like her.
With that thought in place I started to review our options: we have a program through the school district, it is a contained classroom in a typical public school (not our school, one 30-35 mins away). She would be in either a class with other developmentally delayed children, only two with DS, or a class with physically and developmentally delayed children that had one child with DS. She would be in that school for the remainder of this year, then d/t her age and the NYS law saying there can only be an age span of 3 years in any classroom (irrelevant of the developmental age) Anah would have to be moved up to a middle school next year! A typical middle school with a contained classroom! NOT happening! Firstly, she is not familiar with schooling at all, secondly she comes from an institution and this will be strange for her, thirdly, she is not proficient in the language, fourthly, she is nonverbal, fifthly, she is mentally delayed, sixthly, she is the size of a second grader!!! NOT happening!! Did I say that already?
To be fair, I did tour both facilities, I am not saying anything negative about the programs, on the contrary, for a child that is used to school, English and has not been traumatized by institutions, it is wonderful! The programs themselves and the teachers and aids were terrific, it just wouldn't work for Anah.
So then we have School of the Holy Childhood , that is where my niece goes. I was the one who encouraged my sister to go on the tour there, I have been there several times and know it is an AWESOME place! It is a private school specifically for children with developmental delays. It goes from 5years old up to 21, then they can transition into the adult work program there. It is the happiest place you could imagine. As soon as you walk in the door you know there is something special going on. Every adult and child is happy. It is common to see hugs and high fives all the way up and down the hall. Laughter rings out yet there is so much to be learned! The children have a NYS certified education program for their age, which is then modified to their special needs. There are ST, OT, PT, MT, crafts, swimming and every teacher is a special ed. teacher. The classrooms are technically 12-1-1 (12 students, 1 teacher, 1 aide) but several students in each room have a one on one and the ST, OT, PT are in the classroom for part of every day, rotating through, so there is usually a minimum on average of 12-4, more in the younger grades. If you go to the website, you will be blessed.
We toured that school this pas Friday, the other two this past Wens. and I had Anah's CSE meeting this Tuesday. The head of the CSE called me Mon. morning and asked me what we had thought of the programs (she was referring to the Wens tours, she didn't know about the Fri. tour until I told her) I explained my concerns and our desire for Anah to go to SHC. During our CSE meeting on Tues., she asked me to tell the board/committee, whatever you want to call them, about our tours. Anah's teacher, ST and school Psychologist were there and know Anah, as was a SE teacher, they all said they were so excited for Anah and how she responded during her tour of SHC (which by the way was with joy, happiness and dragging me and her daddy around!). As soon as I was done the head of the CSE said "Well, I'd like to officially recommend that Anah go to SHC". You could have knocked me over with a feather!!!
I had expected a battle, everyone else I've ever heard of has really had to fight for their school districts to pay for such services. It costs the school district about $25,000/yr/child to attend there, then they also have to pay for busing them there! It's a 45min drive and she would be the only student on the bus. Actually, Bob and I have pretty much decided we will probably drive her and pick her up. So you can only imagine my utter shock and elation when I heard that!
I filled out and handed in the application for Anah to attend SHC, got the referral from the school, now we just have to have the school eval. Anah and PRAY she can get one of the four slots that are available for the whole school next year! We do have a fairly good chance however, we have our application in early and our school district is supportive, so I am hopeful. Plus, I know whenever she is accepted, even if it isn't for next year, that it is all in God's timing.
I guess I can't be considered a 100% homeschooling mama, but I can be considered a 100% child focused mama and THAT is what God has called all of us parents to be.
Thursday, December 10, 2009
Double Pickles!!
I just deleted all my buttons on my side bar, as well as my scripture of the day and various other things....ugh! I thought I was removing a couple of buttons of children that came home, Praise God!, but instead removed the entire area...can someone say "just shoot me"?
Another family steps out in faith
Grab This Button
This beautiful little cherub needs your prayers, and if you are able, your financial help. She will be transferred to a mental institution Feb. 1st if her new family does not get the needed funds to go get her.
Please visit her family's blog at: The Malone Family
Thursday, December 3, 2009
Just One
Grab This Button
I usually don't post too much asking for donations, but this is an exception. Kiril is already doomed to a horrific short life if his family isn't found soon. He has already been transferred to a mental institution and is already bed bound. His ONLY hope is finding a family very soon! For that reason, I am asking everyone to go to this blog and donate just $1 AND to please spread the word. I know it is a difficult time of year to ask for money, but only $1, that's a cup of coffee! PLEASE, at least, spread the word. Thank you.
http://findingkirilsfamily.blogspot.com/
Busy Thanksgiving
We were gone over Thanksgiving for eight days. We went to see my MIL and step-daughter. It was nice to see them and to be able to help Mom get things done around the house. That's the "beauty" of an old row home in Philly, there is always plenty to keep you busy ;o) .
We got to stop and see PJ and his girlfriend Marissa on our way down and back up. We had wonderful visits, ate good food and got to know Marissa. It was our first time meeting her, she is an adorable young woman. She and PJ seem to get along very well and for that I'm glad.
Amanda and her husband J have reconciled and are working on their marriage. This time they are asking the Lord to guide it, praying they really do, because as we know, that's all of our only hope!
We got to stop and see PJ and his girlfriend Marissa on our way down and back up. We had wonderful visits, ate good food and got to know Marissa. It was our first time meeting her, she is an adorable young woman. She and PJ seem to get along very well and for that I'm glad.
Amanda and her husband J have reconciled and are working on their marriage. This time they are asking the Lord to guide it, praying they really do, because as we know, that's all of our only hope!
What to get for Christmas...
If you have no idea what to get someone for Christmas, have I got an idea for you!
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Thursday, November 19, 2009
Christmas
Just a couple days ago I was lost as to what to do for the children in regards to Christmas. I hate just buying something for the sake of buying it because it is expected at holidays. I always want to get something that will bless the person. So I asked God what I should get the kids.
Within two days I have the youngest three all set (at least as to what I want to get them) and one larger thing for son #1, the two oldest daughters, well, they are pains in the neck, ;o) , chances are they'll get cash and a couple little things to open.
Anyone that knows me, also knows I'm frugal, thrifty, whatever you want to call it, and won't pay full price for anything hardly ever! I also don't like to think that I am contributing to the landfills and the glut that is often the case with us Americans. Believe me, I'm spoiled and I know it, but I don't feel the need to buy everything new, as a matter of fact, I prefer reusing, recycling things. So this brings me to the kids presents, found primarily on Craigslist at a fraction of the cost, without adding to the landfill, they are already here and being used.
Joseph: Can't say in case he or some friends read the blog, but let's say he will be very happy!
Anah: I am looking for a play kitchen for her, haven't found it yet, but that's the big thing I want for her. I also am getting her a toddler/preschool remote control game you play on the TV that is educational. It will be fun and a different way of introducing her to her colors, letters, numbers etc, with three extra cartridges of Dora and Elmo I think. I also bought her a Melissa and Doug chore chart, magnetic, so that she can "mark" with her magnet when she's completed a task, this will let her know what is expected of her and when to do it. I am trying to foster life skills and independence. I also got her some clothes (new/used at Good Will) and will get her a couple little things, probably food or dishes for her kitchen.
Jonathan: To develop his leg strength and coordination I wanted to get him a new ride on toy. The one we have is rather wide and he has such cute, short legs that it is difficult for him to move it. I found a popcorn popper ride on for only $6 and a radio flier rocket for $7! Both from the same lady, so we got both of them! I was talking to his PT today and she mentioned the smart cycle. She said that she had a little guy with a "little something extra" that got one last Christmas. Since he got to ride it all winter, by the time he got to play outside in spring, he had mastered pedaling for the tricycle, so then could focus on the steering. The games are also educational once he gets to that point, but at least it will amuse him in the mean time. I also got him some clothes (new, but on clearance at Walmart for only $2-$3ea). I imagine I'll also get him a couple other little things.
So, I went from no idea, to more than half done in a matter of a couple days. I think I may have the smart cycle, waiting to hear back from the lady, and am still looking for the kitchen set. Joey's items, I am also waiting to hear back from a friend regarding his gifts, but at least know what I want.
When we get back from my MIL's the beginning of the month, I will make my Christmas cards (Stampin' Up) and the gifts for the ladies at church and the therapist/teachers. Bob and I would like a laptop for our Christmas, it will be our together gift as well as our birthdays and Anniversary gift. We don't like to spend money on ourselves, but one big thing for all those occasions to share isn't a lot, and we certainly won't be getting an expensive one! Just enough so we can surf the web, do paperwork, faxes, save pictures, things like that, neither of us needs it for work or anything like that, so it doesn't have to have a lot of bells and whistles, although Bob does want a DVD/CD writer thingamajig.
I'm still on my steroid high, slept only 3 hours last night, praying I sleep a bit more tonight. If I don't get some sleep I'm afraid my body will crash when I'm done with the roids, and that won't be good because we'll be at my MIL's and I want to spend time with her, my stepdaughter and the rest of Bob's family, not comatose.
Well, THAT was a rambling post...
Within two days I have the youngest three all set (at least as to what I want to get them) and one larger thing for son #1, the two oldest daughters, well, they are pains in the neck, ;o) , chances are they'll get cash and a couple little things to open.
Anyone that knows me, also knows I'm frugal, thrifty, whatever you want to call it, and won't pay full price for anything hardly ever! I also don't like to think that I am contributing to the landfills and the glut that is often the case with us Americans. Believe me, I'm spoiled and I know it, but I don't feel the need to buy everything new, as a matter of fact, I prefer reusing, recycling things. So this brings me to the kids presents, found primarily on Craigslist at a fraction of the cost, without adding to the landfill, they are already here and being used.
Joseph: Can't say in case he or some friends read the blog, but let's say he will be very happy!
Anah: I am looking for a play kitchen for her, haven't found it yet, but that's the big thing I want for her. I also am getting her a toddler/preschool remote control game you play on the TV that is educational. It will be fun and a different way of introducing her to her colors, letters, numbers etc, with three extra cartridges of Dora and Elmo I think. I also bought her a Melissa and Doug chore chart, magnetic, so that she can "mark" with her magnet when she's completed a task, this will let her know what is expected of her and when to do it. I am trying to foster life skills and independence. I also got her some clothes (new/used at Good Will) and will get her a couple little things, probably food or dishes for her kitchen.
Jonathan: To develop his leg strength and coordination I wanted to get him a new ride on toy. The one we have is rather wide and he has such cute, short legs that it is difficult for him to move it. I found a popcorn popper ride on for only $6 and a radio flier rocket for $7! Both from the same lady, so we got both of them! I was talking to his PT today and she mentioned the smart cycle. She said that she had a little guy with a "little something extra" that got one last Christmas. Since he got to ride it all winter, by the time he got to play outside in spring, he had mastered pedaling for the tricycle, so then could focus on the steering. The games are also educational once he gets to that point, but at least it will amuse him in the mean time. I also got him some clothes (new, but on clearance at Walmart for only $2-$3ea). I imagine I'll also get him a couple other little things.
So, I went from no idea, to more than half done in a matter of a couple days. I think I may have the smart cycle, waiting to hear back from the lady, and am still looking for the kitchen set. Joey's items, I am also waiting to hear back from a friend regarding his gifts, but at least know what I want.
When we get back from my MIL's the beginning of the month, I will make my Christmas cards (Stampin' Up) and the gifts for the ladies at church and the therapist/teachers. Bob and I would like a laptop for our Christmas, it will be our together gift as well as our birthdays and Anniversary gift. We don't like to spend money on ourselves, but one big thing for all those occasions to share isn't a lot, and we certainly won't be getting an expensive one! Just enough so we can surf the web, do paperwork, faxes, save pictures, things like that, neither of us needs it for work or anything like that, so it doesn't have to have a lot of bells and whistles, although Bob does want a DVD/CD writer thingamajig.
I'm still on my steroid high, slept only 3 hours last night, praying I sleep a bit more tonight. If I don't get some sleep I'm afraid my body will crash when I'm done with the roids, and that won't be good because we'll be at my MIL's and I want to spend time with her, my stepdaughter and the rest of Bob's family, not comatose.
Well, THAT was a rambling post...
Wednesday, November 18, 2009
14 Angels
I haven't blogged much, H1N1 got me down, then I followed it up with bronchitis and upper airway inflammation, so am on steroids and antibiotics....yuck! Anyway, the roids have me unable to sleep, so I thought I'd update a little bit.
Anah finally started her OT today. She did more than the OT thought she would, she had met her last year, but less than I had hoped. But for her first day, not too badly. She had fun in art class and playing in the classroom, still not with other children, but at least participating on her own with Mommy's help. Her ST sits in the class and tries to engage her with speech, but well...you know Anah :oP
14 angels from Reece's Rainbow have found their forever families since the Christmas Angel Tree grant fundraiser has started! That's almost one child a day! What a blessing! I've been driving my car with the RR big magnetic sticker on the drivers side and on the back (I had gotten one for each car, but our van is all fiberglass so it wouldn't stick...who knew?). I've had lots of people looking and reading. I pray it peaks much interest. It also helps that two cute kids with DS are in the car too ;o)
Ok, well that's a brief update, but I really should try and get some sleep. It's after 2am and I have lots to do tomorrow. We'll be heading to PA for part of Thanksgiving, so need to get things in order.
Anah finally started her OT today. She did more than the OT thought she would, she had met her last year, but less than I had hoped. But for her first day, not too badly. She had fun in art class and playing in the classroom, still not with other children, but at least participating on her own with Mommy's help. Her ST sits in the class and tries to engage her with speech, but well...you know Anah :oP
14 angels from Reece's Rainbow have found their forever families since the Christmas Angel Tree grant fundraiser has started! That's almost one child a day! What a blessing! I've been driving my car with the RR big magnetic sticker on the drivers side and on the back (I had gotten one for each car, but our van is all fiberglass so it wouldn't stick...who knew?). I've had lots of people looking and reading. I pray it peaks much interest. It also helps that two cute kids with DS are in the car too ;o)
Ok, well that's a brief update, but I really should try and get some sleep. It's after 2am and I have lots to do tomorrow. We'll be heading to PA for part of Thanksgiving, so need to get things in order.
Friday, November 13, 2009
Lera has her forever family!!
Lera has found her forever family, Praise God! She was literally days away from institutionalization. But, because of prayers and donations to her grant fund, she has found her family. This is a perfect example of what I keep saying, that it isn't a lack of families per say, it's more a lack of funds for families that are willing. That's why advocating for these little ones is so imperative.Thank you to all who prayed for this little one!
Sunday, November 8, 2009
Nov. is National Adoption Awareness Month
Lera - Born: August 7, 2005Lera is a gorgeous little girl with blonde hair and blue eyes. She is 4 years old. She is quite high functioning, and doing very well. She has flat feet and a systolic heart murmur, but no major heart conditions. She is able to walk and climb, she eats by herself, dances, and understands and follows directions. She has also been transferred to the regular class, so she is living and learning with her typical peers.
Lera lives in Russia and if a family does not commit to her within the next few DAYS, her time will be up. She will be sent to a mental institution where she will then be unadoptable. She will spend out the rest of her days tied down to a crib... left there to die. She will get no medical care, hardly any food, and no love. She will never have parents to call her own. My heart aches just thinking about it.
There's a grant of $1,000 available to the family that adopts her. To hear that her time is running out is painful Lera deserves a chance to live, to be happy, to go to school and have friends and have a mom and dad to hug her and kiss her owies and soothe her when she has a bad dream. She deserves a chance to be a ballerina or dress up like a princess for Halloween, if she wants to... she doesn't deserve to be tied to a crib and left to die. Just because she has Down syndrome.
Here are the specifications for Russia:
* 2 trips
* Both parents for first trip, about one week
* Both parents travel for 2nd trip, approximately 14 days
(One parent may leave after the court proceedings are finalized, after about 5 days.)
* Total program and travel fees under $25k
* Fee includes a $1000 orphanage donation
* Only one child can be adopted at a time
* Married couples and single mothers may apply
Could you be Lera's parents? She's waiting...
Wednesday, November 4, 2009
Another video
One of the ladies that is a member of the Reece's Rainbow group made this video. I challenge anyone that may see it, NOT to be moved, at least to prayer for these children.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PmzK3oVm6x4
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PmzK3oVm6x4
Saturday, October 31, 2009
31 of 31 for 21
Announcing our 4th Annual
CHRISTMAS ANGEL TREE
The Reece's Rainbow Down Syndrome Adoption Ministry is a 501c3 charity which promotes and facilitates the international adoption of children with Down syndrome.
In only 3 years, more than 225 children with Down syndrome and other special needs have found their "forever families" at the end of Reece's Rainbow!
Your gifts have made that possible!
The Angel Treeis our most important fundraiser each year, and this year we have (166) orphans with Down syndrome around the world who are in need of grant donations (and adoption!)
From November 1-December 31, 2009, each of our orphaned children is praying that YOU will be their "Christmas Warrior". Please help them raise money in their adoption grant fund so a *forever family* can afford to rescue them from life in a mental institution.
There are families lined up and waiting to save these children,but they need financial help to do it! With an average cost of $25,000 to adopt internationally, every penny helps. Even the smallest donations really add up, and can truly change the course of a child's life!
*** With your donation of $35 (or more), you will receive a beautiful, porcelain Christmas ornament with your sponsored child's photo on the back. ***
This is a special way to share Christmas with an orphaned child, and to make it possible for them to spend NEXT Christmas at home with their new family!
Regardless of your faith, ethnic background, or nationality, your gift is life-saving in nature. Our goal is to raise $1000 or more for each of our waiting children. You can help by donating and sharing this Angel Tree with others! This is a very meaningful and personal gift idea for the holidays too!
Your additional gifts to our Voice of Hope fund help keep our ministry operational.
Give the gift of a family this Christmas!
International sponsors welcome!
*** Be SURE to watch and share our new video (click link to the right)....powerful, moving, compelling, and definitely worth watching! It really captures the essence and urgency of our work! ***
We also ask you to please just hit *forward* to everyone in your address book, and share this official Angel Tree announcement with everyone you know!
Visit our home page at http://www.reecesrainbow.org/ throughout the year for more ways to bring our children into loving families. All donations are tax deductible to the fullest extent of the law. EIN 20-5466141
CHRISTMAS ANGEL TREE
The Reece's Rainbow Down Syndrome Adoption Ministry is a 501c3 charity which promotes and facilitates the international adoption of children with Down syndrome.
In only 3 years, more than 225 children with Down syndrome and other special needs have found their "forever families" at the end of Reece's Rainbow!
Your gifts have made that possible!
The Angel Treeis our most important fundraiser each year, and this year we have (166) orphans with Down syndrome around the world who are in need of grant donations (and adoption!)
From November 1-December 31, 2009, each of our orphaned children is praying that YOU will be their "Christmas Warrior". Please help them raise money in their adoption grant fund so a *forever family* can afford to rescue them from life in a mental institution.
There are families lined up and waiting to save these children,but they need financial help to do it! With an average cost of $25,000 to adopt internationally, every penny helps. Even the smallest donations really add up, and can truly change the course of a child's life!
*** With your donation of $35 (or more), you will receive a beautiful, porcelain Christmas ornament with your sponsored child's photo on the back. ***
This is a special way to share Christmas with an orphaned child, and to make it possible for them to spend NEXT Christmas at home with their new family!
Regardless of your faith, ethnic background, or nationality, your gift is life-saving in nature. Our goal is to raise $1000 or more for each of our waiting children. You can help by donating and sharing this Angel Tree with others! This is a very meaningful and personal gift idea for the holidays too!
Your additional gifts to our Voice of Hope fund help keep our ministry operational.
Give the gift of a family this Christmas!
International sponsors welcome!
*** Be SURE to watch and share our new video (click link to the right)....powerful, moving, compelling, and definitely worth watching! It really captures the essence and urgency of our work! ***
We also ask you to please just hit *forward* to everyone in your address book, and share this official Angel Tree announcement with everyone you know!
Visit our home page at http://www.reecesrainbow.org/ throughout the year for more ways to bring our children into loving families. All donations are tax deductible to the fullest extent of the law. EIN 20-5466141
Friday, October 30, 2009
30 of 31 for 21
Anah's evaluation went well yesterday. She actually participated and was interactive to a degree with the doctor, PT, OT, ST and social worker. We pretty much have all the services in place already, I guess it was just for a baseline.
The doctor felt that Anah may have some autism, but it could be institutional or a mild form. She will need to have a specific test for it, but there isn't any big rush, we will still do the same things for her anyway, at least at this time. They are going to try and find a local hippotherapy program for Anah, that is the one thing I would really like added. Before that I have to get her neck X-rayed, so I'm going to do Jonathan's at the same time as well, then we'll be all ready to go whenever we find something we want for him as well.
The doctor felt that Anah may have some autism, but it could be institutional or a mild form. She will need to have a specific test for it, but there isn't any big rush, we will still do the same things for her anyway, at least at this time. They are going to try and find a local hippotherapy program for Anah, that is the one thing I would really like added. Before that I have to get her neck X-rayed, so I'm going to do Jonathan's at the same time as well, then we'll be all ready to go whenever we find something we want for him as well.
Thursday, October 29, 2009
29 for 31 of 21
This afternoon Anah and I have her evaluation at the Center for Children with Developmental Disabilities. Finally! It takes months to get an appt. and we had to cancel the first one because she got sick, so now, today we finally get to go. I have little doubt they will find she also has autism. I'm not sure what we will do differently, but that's what the center is for, to help, so I'm anxious to see what may help my little princess.
Of course, she and I will go to the thrift store that is out that way after we are done. We need to have some fun!! (Ok, Mommy does).
Please pray for my other niece, Rachel, she now has H1N1. She is the one that has DS, she also has had two open heart surgeries, resp. issues in the past, strokes and she still has seizures. It hit her like a ton of bricks, no symptoms until out of no where a high temp., aches and she was down. They thought she would have to go to the emergency last night, but after a Tylenol suppository her fever came down a bit. They are waiting on the doctor getting back to them regarding the Tamiflu and whether they want to see her in the office or not.
Her sister, Gracie, is improving, please continue to pray for her. Also, please pray that my friend and her hubby don't get it, or their other son that is still at home.
Of course, she and I will go to the thrift store that is out that way after we are done. We need to have some fun!! (Ok, Mommy does).
Please pray for my other niece, Rachel, she now has H1N1. She is the one that has DS, she also has had two open heart surgeries, resp. issues in the past, strokes and she still has seizures. It hit her like a ton of bricks, no symptoms until out of no where a high temp., aches and she was down. They thought she would have to go to the emergency last night, but after a Tylenol suppository her fever came down a bit. They are waiting on the doctor getting back to them regarding the Tamiflu and whether they want to see her in the office or not.
Her sister, Gracie, is improving, please continue to pray for her. Also, please pray that my friend and her hubby don't get it, or their other son that is still at home.
Wednesday, October 28, 2009
28 of 31 for 21
Joey and Waldo
That can't be comfortable...
Beautiful Anah
Anah drinking tea
Our family of five...three out of the house now.Today will be a picture day, since I have some from my parent's house this weekend. We went to celebrate Anah's belated birthday, since we had death and illness the past two weekends. Enjoy the pics of my beautiful children...no, I'm not partial at all ;o)
Didn't do it again...27 for 31 of 21
Apparently, I forgot to post yesterday....lol...I thought I had, but since I had a busy day, I guess it slipped my mind (which believe me, is VERY easy to do).
So, I'll tell you what we did. Anah and I had a girls only day. First we went to the Medicaid office, which if any of you know, is a nightmare!!!, at least in NY, UGH! We FINALLY, after 10 months, had Anah's appt. for her Medicaid. In NY, you can get medicaid d/t a diagnosis of MR, even if you have other insurance, which we do. We have Tricare, through Bob, but now Medicaid will be our secondary and cover things that Tricare doesn't, which is such a blessing! Even with an appt., you have to wait in a line. Usually that line goes faster since it is the designated "Appointment Only" line. After you check in, you get a number and have to sit and wait with the hundred or so other people that also have numbers. Thankfully, we really didn't have to wait long before we were called in. This is of course due to the fact that our Service Coordinator had already come out to the house and helped us fill in all the paperwork, told me what documents to bring and had gotten our income waiver (that is what took so long). The appt. itself was only about 10 minutes long...after 10 months....sigh. But, hopefully, we will be getting a letter by the end of the week!
Then, since I don't go into downtown Rochester often, I decided to go to the two VOA's that I know of there to see what I could find. I have decided to make most of the gifts this year, at least for all the therapists, and church gifts. I "borrowed" an idea from a craft store I saw. Once I make a couple I'll post pictures. They are so cute and oh so easy and inexpensive to make! They are cake, pie, cookie or candy dishes on a pedestal, I will fill each with homemade cookies, candies or chocolate covered pretzels. So, I bought my "supplies" at these places.
After the two downtown VOA's Anah and I went to lunch at Perkins. Boy, can that girl eat! I love her so much. We sat next to each other in the booth and giggled and laughed at who knows what, and just had an enjoyable time together. Afterwards I dragged her to two more Good Wills in the suburbs, that we don't live too near to either. The whole time I talk to her about anything and everything and now she is starting to babble back and point to things. I'm fairly certain she will speak English some day and not just Anaheese.
Then we came home, she fell asleep in the car...awww. Once home we had our usual busy evening with the rest of the crew.
So, I'll tell you what we did. Anah and I had a girls only day. First we went to the Medicaid office, which if any of you know, is a nightmare!!!, at least in NY, UGH! We FINALLY, after 10 months, had Anah's appt. for her Medicaid. In NY, you can get medicaid d/t a diagnosis of MR, even if you have other insurance, which we do. We have Tricare, through Bob, but now Medicaid will be our secondary and cover things that Tricare doesn't, which is such a blessing! Even with an appt., you have to wait in a line. Usually that line goes faster since it is the designated "Appointment Only" line. After you check in, you get a number and have to sit and wait with the hundred or so other people that also have numbers. Thankfully, we really didn't have to wait long before we were called in. This is of course due to the fact that our Service Coordinator had already come out to the house and helped us fill in all the paperwork, told me what documents to bring and had gotten our income waiver (that is what took so long). The appt. itself was only about 10 minutes long...after 10 months....sigh. But, hopefully, we will be getting a letter by the end of the week!
Then, since I don't go into downtown Rochester often, I decided to go to the two VOA's that I know of there to see what I could find. I have decided to make most of the gifts this year, at least for all the therapists, and church gifts. I "borrowed" an idea from a craft store I saw. Once I make a couple I'll post pictures. They are so cute and oh so easy and inexpensive to make! They are cake, pie, cookie or candy dishes on a pedestal, I will fill each with homemade cookies, candies or chocolate covered pretzels. So, I bought my "supplies" at these places.
After the two downtown VOA's Anah and I went to lunch at Perkins. Boy, can that girl eat! I love her so much. We sat next to each other in the booth and giggled and laughed at who knows what, and just had an enjoyable time together. Afterwards I dragged her to two more Good Wills in the suburbs, that we don't live too near to either. The whole time I talk to her about anything and everything and now she is starting to babble back and point to things. I'm fairly certain she will speak English some day and not just Anaheese.
Then we came home, she fell asleep in the car...awww. Once home we had our usual busy evening with the rest of the crew.
Monday, October 26, 2009
26 of 31 for 21
Asking for prayer for my "niece" (best friend's dtr.), she has H1N1. Her school is closed for a week. Please pray her fever doesn't go any higher, 102, that her lungs stay healthy and that she recovers quickly. Please also pray her sister, who has cardiac and resp. issues, as well as DS, doesn't get it.
The doctor didn't want to give her the antiviral, since she isn't in a high risk group. I thought they were considering all children high risk? I guess it's very arbitrary and depends on who you speak with and when. The doc. didn't want to see her either and has no way of testing to make sure it is "officially" H1N1, but since 3 or 4 other children in her VERY small christian school have it, they are assuming any child that gets similar symptoms has it as well. If she gets sicker they said to bring her to the hospital.
I ask that you lift Gracie up in prayer, as well as her family. Thank you
The doctor didn't want to give her the antiviral, since she isn't in a high risk group. I thought they were considering all children high risk? I guess it's very arbitrary and depends on who you speak with and when. The doc. didn't want to see her either and has no way of testing to make sure it is "officially" H1N1, but since 3 or 4 other children in her VERY small christian school have it, they are assuming any child that gets similar symptoms has it as well. If she gets sicker they said to bring her to the hospital.
I ask that you lift Gracie up in prayer, as well as her family. Thank you
Sunday, October 25, 2009
25 of 31 for 21
I know that yesterday's post was sad, well, unfortunately, so is today's. But I feel I wouldn't be being honest if I didn't talk about the sad truth as well as all the joy that my special children bring me.
Please visit this video:
http://www.onetruemedia.com/otm_site/view_shared?p=9bf88693f09ea86ca16ead&skin_id=601&utm_source=otm&utm_medium=text_url
Please visit this video:
http://www.onetruemedia.com/otm_site/view_shared?p=9bf88693f09ea86ca16ead&skin_id=601&utm_source=otm&utm_medium=text_url
Saturday, October 24, 2009
24 of 31 for 21
This post isn't specifically about DS, but the same thing happens to children with DS in many of the countries in the world. Diana was one of the girls that Reece's Rainbow was advocating for and raising grant money for, she had CP. How can I convey the importance of grants for these children?
There are many families, probably MORE than enough, that would love to adopt these children, but the funds needed prohibit it. I don't know many people that are lead by God and willing to adopt these special children, that have an extra $20,000-30,000 hanging around. If you do, PLEASE, let me know and/or send them to the Reeces Rainbow website.
http://www.reecesrainbow.org/
There are many families, probably MORE than enough, that would love to adopt these children, but the funds needed prohibit it. I don't know many people that are lead by God and willing to adopt these special children, that have an extra $20,000-30,000 hanging around. If you do, PLEASE, let me know and/or send them to the Reeces Rainbow website.
http://www.reecesrainbow.org/
This is an email I got today from the director of RR, please read it and pray for the children. And if God puts it on your heart to help these children, PLEASE, don't think that your donation, prayers or time will go unnoticed, God sees it all.
"All, many of you have donated and prayed for Diana, who has severe CP.
We have learned that she was transferred from the baby house months ago, and we have no info about her presence at Torez (where she was sent). We can't confirm she has passed away, but they do not tube feed at the institutions, and she required a feeding tube to survive.
Your prayers for her, as she has truly had to *endure* her short 5 years of life, and that if she has indeed passed away, that she is healthy and happy with her Father in Heaven now.
Diana (4)
Girl, Born March 2, 2004
Little Diana is living on borrowed time. She recently "celebrated" her 5th birthday, but in an Eastern European orphanage, that is nothing to celebrate. Miss Diana was born with severe Cerebral Palsy, and will likely not survive her transfer to the institution. She is blessed to still be in the baby house. One of our own adoptive families who visited with her in March 2008 shared this with us about Diana: " This child has several medical problems and was described to me as �difficult� although it is based only on her diagnosis. She has Cerebral Palsy and is fed via tube. She spends her days tucked in a crib without any stimulation other than feedings and occasional diaper changes. Her crib is situated where she cannot even see the other children in the room, just the side of a table through her crib bars. I was asked whether or not I even wanted her picture but there is no way I could leave without it. I hope that her forever family is looking for her right now!"
We are so prayerful that there is a forever family out there for every single one of the children we share here at Reece's Rainbow...and maybe even one for little Diana. Is it you?
Please contact Andrea directly for more information
I have $500 in my grant fund towards the cost of my adoption!
Diana's adoption grant of $500 has now been shared with Miss Olga, who is also struggling with CP, living in the same baby house, and facing institutionalization very soon.
Andrea Roberts, Executive Director
Reece's Rainbow Down Syndrome Adoption Ministry
http://www.reecesrainbow.org/ "
Friday, October 23, 2009
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There is a dear RR family that has recently adopted a beautiful little girl, Evie, with Down Syndrome. Evie's sister, Polly, the families biological daughter with DS, was just diagnosed with Moya Moya. This is a disease that causes strokes and seizures in children. Please join me, and the RR family, in praying for healing for beautiful Polly and strength for her family.
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22 of 31 for 21
Today my helper (Anah) and I went grocery shopping. Now, grocery shopping for me is not just an in the store and out deal. Oh no, I plan which stores I'm buying what at, only if it's on sale and only if I have a coupon. I buy very little without a sale and coupon, it has to be a dire need or a weekly necessity.
Today I got over $130 worth of items at Walgreens for $61 and change. I then went to Good Will and got Anah two skirts, a pair of pants, a pair of sweat Capri's, two shirts for me and three Coke glasses for Bob, all for $21. More than I would have like to spend, but Anah is growing right out of her clothes (Praise God) and Momma always seems to have stains on her shirts..hmmm.... Then we went to Wegmans, where I got most of the meat for the month, as well as a large grocery cart full of food, the total was $159, but I got it for $116. Not terrific, but most of it was meat and I didn't have any coupons for that, but I did get the meat on sale.
So for $177 I got most of our groceries, paper products and various other supplies for the month for a family of 5. I still need a few other things from Save A Lot, which I'll get after co-op tomorrow, but that shouldn't be more than $20. We still need to get fresh fruit, milk, bread every week or every other week, and a few odds and ends, but over all, my spending 1/2 a day a week on coupons and looking for bargains and another 1/2 day shopping is very beneficial to our family. I'm blessed that I can be home to do it and that I have such an awesome little helper. Anah keeps up with me very well, she does start to drag by the end, but then again, so do I. She chats in her gibberish to me and I get to tell her what things are, what colors things are and anything else that she points to or pops into my head. She sure is a sweet heart.
Today I got over $130 worth of items at Walgreens for $61 and change. I then went to Good Will and got Anah two skirts, a pair of pants, a pair of sweat Capri's, two shirts for me and three Coke glasses for Bob, all for $21. More than I would have like to spend, but Anah is growing right out of her clothes (Praise God) and Momma always seems to have stains on her shirts..hmmm.... Then we went to Wegmans, where I got most of the meat for the month, as well as a large grocery cart full of food, the total was $159, but I got it for $116. Not terrific, but most of it was meat and I didn't have any coupons for that, but I did get the meat on sale.
So for $177 I got most of our groceries, paper products and various other supplies for the month for a family of 5. I still need a few other things from Save A Lot, which I'll get after co-op tomorrow, but that shouldn't be more than $20. We still need to get fresh fruit, milk, bread every week or every other week, and a few odds and ends, but over all, my spending 1/2 a day a week on coupons and looking for bargains and another 1/2 day shopping is very beneficial to our family. I'm blessed that I can be home to do it and that I have such an awesome little helper. Anah keeps up with me very well, she does start to drag by the end, but then again, so do I. She chats in her gibberish to me and I get to tell her what things are, what colors things are and anything else that she points to or pops into my head. She sure is a sweet heart.
Tuesday, October 20, 2009
20 of 31 for 21
Jonathan sharing his thoughts at Build a Bear.
Anah filling her Hello Kitty at Build a Bear, for her birthday.
Anah and Momma, she's not too sure about all of it.
My beautiful girl looking at her Magna Doodle pen ;o)
Jonathan wearing his glasses....for the moment.I said I'd post some pics once I got back on my computer, well I'm back on it some, so here they are, I hate that the pics post above the message even when I do it after...hmm.
Monday, October 19, 2009
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I know I've posted about being blessed by my homeschool co-op, but this may give you a better idea of just why. It is two of the wonderful people that LOVE my children with DS. When my children are in Miss Louisa's room I never have any concerns or worries. I am able to teach my lesson and help with other lessons without any thought as to how my children are doing and if they are being cared for.
Dear Diane is the proud Momma of these two young ladies, she also is blessed with another daughter and two sons. Her blog is a very interesting mix of wit and how a single Momma can homeschool her children and live a classic "old fashioned" lifestyle. She makes her meals from scratch, does a fair amount of baking and sews! She puts me, and many others I have no doubt, to shame!
Dear Diane is the proud Momma of these two young ladies, she also is blessed with another daughter and two sons. Her blog is a very interesting mix of wit and how a single Momma can homeschool her children and live a classic "old fashioned" lifestyle. She makes her meals from scratch, does a fair amount of baking and sews! She puts me, and many others I have no doubt, to shame!
Sunday, October 18, 2009
OOPS 17 missed
But I have a good reason, it was my beautiful daughter's first birthday at home! She's a big 12 year old! I will post pics once I can get on my computer, been using my hubbies since hand/wrist surgery and I don't have the pics on it.
Friday, October 16, 2009
Thursday, October 15, 2009
Makes me Sick!
The article says it all, too sad and disturbing:
http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,565444,00.html?loomia_ow=t0:s0:a16:g2:r4:c0.095532:b28301394:z10
http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,565444,00.html?loomia_ow=t0:s0:a16:g2:r4:c0.095532:b28301394:z10
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The lady that started Reece's Rainbow has made a montage for the Buddy Cruise where she will be giving a presentation. The Buddy Cruise is part of the Buddy Walk, both are designed to increase awareness of people with Down Syndrome and the services that are available to them. Please follow this link to see a beautiful montage about RR and DS:
http://www.onetruemedia.com/otm_site/view_shared?p=9b08ab7214bb71b4b33e33&skin_id=1602&utm_source=otm&utm_medium=text_url
http://www.onetruemedia.com/otm_site/view_shared?p=9b08ab7214bb71b4b33e33&skin_id=1602&utm_source=otm&utm_medium=text_url
Wednesday, October 14, 2009
14 of 31 for 21
The Creed of Babies with Down Syndrome
My face may be different
But my feelings the same
I laugh and I cry
And I take pride in my gains
I was sent here among you
To teach you to love
As God in the heavens
Looks down from above
To Him I'm no different
His love knows no bounds
It's those here among you
In cities and towns
That judge me by standards
That man has imparted
But this family I've chosen
Will help me get started
For I'm one of the children
So special and few
That came here to learn
The same lessons as you
That love is acceptance
It must come from the heart
We all have the same purpose
Though not the same start
The Lord gave me life
To live and embrace
And I'll do it as you do
But at my own pace
My face may be different
But my feelings the same
I laugh and I cry
And I take pride in my gains
I was sent here among you
To teach you to love
As God in the heavens
Looks down from above
To Him I'm no different
His love knows no bounds
It's those here among you
In cities and towns
That judge me by standards
That man has imparted
But this family I've chosen
Will help me get started
For I'm one of the children
So special and few
That came here to learn
The same lessons as you
That love is acceptance
It must come from the heart
We all have the same purpose
Though not the same start
The Lord gave me life
To live and embrace
And I'll do it as you do
But at my own pace
Tuesday, October 13, 2009
13 of 31 for 21
Today I am going to reference another adoptive Mom's blog. She wrote, much better than I could, why/how we can/should adopt children with special needs. Please drop by her blog to read it, it's inspiring. http://jerdebwalker.blogspot.com/2009/10/its-never-enough-or-is-it.html
Double Pickles
Missed another day blogging. Yesterday was my darling husband and my anniversary, #7 to be exact. We are so blessed to have found each other after both coming from very ugly first marriages and divorces. It's amazing what a marriage arranged by a loving God can look like. We like to tell people that we have an arranged marriage ;o) .
We came home from our cottage yesterday, so were closing it up, driving, fixing things before we could leave etc. A very long day.
The kids did well, Anah got to ride home with my niece, they giggled and laughed all the way home, talking in "their" language, makes me smile. Praise God for such blessings.
We came home from our cottage yesterday, so were closing it up, driving, fixing things before we could leave etc. A very long day.
The kids did well, Anah got to ride home with my niece, they giggled and laughed all the way home, talking in "their" language, makes me smile. Praise God for such blessings.
Sunday, October 11, 2009
11of 31 for 21
Don't try to avoid responsibility by saying you didn't know about it. For God knows all hearts, and he sees you. He keeps watch over your soul, and he knows you knew! And he will judge all people according to what they have done. Proverbs 24:12 NLT
This is one of the main reasons we have adopted children with Down Syndrome. We were convicted by the need. The many children around the world with special needs that are considered to be"throw away" pricked us to the heart. Once we were made aware we had to act. God knew we knew, there was no denying it.
Now we feel we need to make others aware also, we don't expect all to adopt, but everyone can help in some way or other. Praying for families for all the children is vital, financing is also a huge challenge and should you feel lead to adopt, seek God's will for your life. It certainly is a rewarding ride ;o)
This is one of the main reasons we have adopted children with Down Syndrome. We were convicted by the need. The many children around the world with special needs that are considered to be"throw away" pricked us to the heart. Once we were made aware we had to act. God knew we knew, there was no denying it.
Now we feel we need to make others aware also, we don't expect all to adopt, but everyone can help in some way or other. Praying for families for all the children is vital, financing is also a huge challenge and should you feel lead to adopt, seek God's will for your life. It certainly is a rewarding ride ;o)
10 of 31 for 21
I know it says the 11th, but I haven't gone to bed yet, so I'm posting on day 10 for me. Today Anah and my niece, Rachel played all day. I know it may not seem like a big deal, but Anah is just learning to play and I love that she has someone else with DS to play with.
Anah still doesn't talk (other than her own language...Anahese) and Rachel is just starting to talk clearer (not only DS, but several strokes, one in which she lost her speech) but boy do they communicate and giggle! It does my heart good to hear Anah laughing. To see her interacting and playing with a child close to her age, not a toddler or an adult.
When you have a child with DS, you sure learn to slow down and appreciate the smaller things in life. Thank you Lord for giving me such wonderful children, so that I can learn to slow down and enjoy the life You have seen fit to give me. It sure is a sweet journey.
Anah still doesn't talk (other than her own language...Anahese) and Rachel is just starting to talk clearer (not only DS, but several strokes, one in which she lost her speech) but boy do they communicate and giggle! It does my heart good to hear Anah laughing. To see her interacting and playing with a child close to her age, not a toddler or an adult.
When you have a child with DS, you sure learn to slow down and appreciate the smaller things in life. Thank you Lord for giving me such wonderful children, so that I can learn to slow down and enjoy the life You have seen fit to give me. It sure is a sweet journey.
Thursday, October 8, 2009
8 of 31 for 21
This week, Anah started back at the public school for her speech therapy, and OT (when they get someone available). This is only 2 days a week, my choice. Since I homeschool, initially I was going to have services in the home, like I do for Jonathan. After Anah was home for several months I knew she needed to be around other children. She was comfortable around infants and adults, but not children. She is with children Wens, Fri. and Sun at church and all day Fri at homeschool co-op, but I wanted a bit more, so this works.
She goes in for a couple hours Tues and Thurs. with a teacher she is familiar with from last year and some of the same children. Tues. she has Art, story time and play time; Thurs. she has Music and Library. Today was a fire drill while we were up in the library (I stay with her the whole time). Anah did very well, I thought she might cry because of the lights and the noise, but not a tear. She is growing day by day, I'm so proud of her!
She goes in for a couple hours Tues and Thurs. with a teacher she is familiar with from last year and some of the same children. Tues. she has Art, story time and play time; Thurs. she has Music and Library. Today was a fire drill while we were up in the library (I stay with her the whole time). Anah did very well, I thought she might cry because of the lights and the noise, but not a tear. She is growing day by day, I'm so proud of her!
Wednesday, October 7, 2009
7 of 31 for 21
Lu, the lady who designed the free Reece's Rainbow calendar, mentioned she needed someone to locate a printer or two, to see about printing the calendars for those that can't print their own, or for those who prefer a professional product.
Since we know Becca from the Camp Grove, I figured I'd ask her and her family's business, to give us a price. Since RR is a 501K organization, she could give us a special price. Boy is it EVER!! Lu and I were blown away by their generosity! We will be asking $3/calendar that is only the cost of printing the calendar and my s&h to mail it to you!! Lu asked that they just be printed as sheets and we will then cut our own calendars to the way we want them. Some of us will open them vertically, some horizontally, yet others just attached at one corner with a ribbon, it is up to the individual to cut them and set them up the way they choose.
These will make wonderful Christmas gifts, I plan on giving several. I would ask, for those that are able, that you also consider giving a donation to one of the children on RR. If you can only give a couple dollars and don't feel it is enough to do it through the RR site, I'd be happy to take all the "smaller" (no donation is really too small), donations, put them all together and donate them to one specific child that may not have a Christmas warrior. I will be donating any left over funds, after paying for the calendars, envelopes and s&h, to a specific RR child.
I would just like to reassure you that none of us is making any money on this or getting paid, this is a labor of love. Love for all of the children that do not have families. Children that will live and die in orphanages, and when they get too old (usually age 4), they are transferred to mental institutions, where most die within the first year.
The grants for these children, that we try to raise awareness for, is to help families who have a heart for adoption, but don't have the $25,000-$35,000 average, that it costs for an international adoption. There are many of us who have already adopted one or more of these wonderful children with DS, that would LOVE to adopt more, but the cost is prohibitive. We walk a fine line between knowing God can/will/does provide for all our needs, and being wise stewards of the resources and families He gives us. To see a family have to stop an adoption once they are started, is devastating emotionally for all, as well as damaging financially to the family.
So, why in the world would anyone risk their heart and their finances? Click on my calendar button, have a look at those faces, that will answer your question. God bless, and please let me know if you would like a calendar or two...
Since we know Becca from the Camp Grove, I figured I'd ask her and her family's business, to give us a price. Since RR is a 501K organization, she could give us a special price. Boy is it EVER!! Lu and I were blown away by their generosity! We will be asking $3/calendar that is only the cost of printing the calendar and my s&h to mail it to you!! Lu asked that they just be printed as sheets and we will then cut our own calendars to the way we want them. Some of us will open them vertically, some horizontally, yet others just attached at one corner with a ribbon, it is up to the individual to cut them and set them up the way they choose.
These will make wonderful Christmas gifts, I plan on giving several. I would ask, for those that are able, that you also consider giving a donation to one of the children on RR. If you can only give a couple dollars and don't feel it is enough to do it through the RR site, I'd be happy to take all the "smaller" (no donation is really too small), donations, put them all together and donate them to one specific child that may not have a Christmas warrior. I will be donating any left over funds, after paying for the calendars, envelopes and s&h, to a specific RR child.
I would just like to reassure you that none of us is making any money on this or getting paid, this is a labor of love. Love for all of the children that do not have families. Children that will live and die in orphanages, and when they get too old (usually age 4), they are transferred to mental institutions, where most die within the first year.
The grants for these children, that we try to raise awareness for, is to help families who have a heart for adoption, but don't have the $25,000-$35,000 average, that it costs for an international adoption. There are many of us who have already adopted one or more of these wonderful children with DS, that would LOVE to adopt more, but the cost is prohibitive. We walk a fine line between knowing God can/will/does provide for all our needs, and being wise stewards of the resources and families He gives us. To see a family have to stop an adoption once they are started, is devastating emotionally for all, as well as damaging financially to the family.
So, why in the world would anyone risk their heart and their finances? Click on my calendar button, have a look at those faces, that will answer your question. God bless, and please let me know if you would like a calendar or two...
Tuesday, October 6, 2009
6 of 31 for 21
Grab This Button
Today we have the link for the free Reece's Rainbow calendar. it is beautiful! Lu, a lady from England, who would love to adopt a child with DS, but is unable at this time, has graciously done this for RR, for the past 3 years.
I am honored that Anah is on the calendar. She is November, one of the success stories of RR, it shows a before and a couple after adoption photos. Jonathan happens to be in one of the pics with Anah. He is not an "official" RR child, but he was one of the first on the Family Sponsorship Page.
There is a scripture on each page and a brief saying from each family. The design and art work is absolutely beautiful. It is a free download for whoever would like it. I am checking into professional printing of these calendars, so I can give them as gifts for Christmas. Also, for anyone who donates toward a child you can get a professionally printed calendar. All you pay is for the actual printing costs, s&h along with your donation to a specific child.
The goal is to get families for these children. There are many families who would jump at the chance to adopt one or more of these children, but the cost is prohibitive. That is why we are so dedicated to trying to raise funds for grants for the children. If we can get grants for these children, they have a greater chance of being adopted.
So please, have a look at these beautiful children. If you feel so inclined, download it for yourself. Or better yet, donate to a RR child and you will receive a professionally printed calendar. You will need to contact me for this, as I believe I will be the one handling the distribution of the calendars.
Here is the link for you to print it yourself:
http://poppiesblooming.blogspot.com/2009/10/free-2010-reeces-rainbow-calendar.html
Monday, October 5, 2009
5 of 31 for 21
To Select a Bauble For Your Blog CLICK HEREAnyone who even remotely knows me, knows I have a heart for orphans, but especially those with Down Syndrome. I found out about this site when I was "searching" for my children on the internet, it's called Reece's Rainbow. It gives the plight of children with Down Syndrome, in foreign countries, a voice. It's goal is to find a home for God's children that are considered of little or no worth.
This web site is the brain child of Andrea Roberts. She has a son, Reece, who was born with Down Syndrome. Andrea sacrifices MANY hours a day/week/month/year, to finding homes for these children.
The biggest fund raiser of the year for RR is coming up, it's the Angel Tree Project. For a $35 donation you get a Christmas Tree Ornament with RR's emblem on it and a picture of "your" orphan. You get to pick which orphan you would like to sponsor and ALL that money goes into a grant specifically for that child. The grants can often be a major factor as to whether a child gets adopted or not.
The cost of adoption is HUGE, there are so many families that are willing and would love to adopt these children, but the cost is just too high. Sometimes a grant can give parents the courage to start the adoption process.
So, I ask you to visit Reece's Rainbow and see if you might not see your child there, if not, maybe you will decide to sponsor a child, either for yourself, or as a gift for someone else. I got a sponsorship for each of my parents last year for Christmas, they loved it!
Sunday, October 4, 2009
4 of 31 for 21
Today we celebrated my niece Rachel's 10th birthday and Anah's 12th birthday. We went to Build a Bear. Rachel also has DS. Rachel has been there before, so has her sister Gracie and my son Joey, but it was new for Jonathan and Anah. Jonathan loved it. He liked the stuffing machine, that kept all the fluff spinning around. Poor Anah on the other hand, took a while to warm up.
I'm not sure if it was the busyness of the mall, the noise in the store or a combination of all of it, plus the fact she can be insecure and unsure in new situations, but she cried for the first few minutes. She semi-picked Hello Kitty as her animal to stuff, Rachel picked a Jonas Brothers dog, Gracie picked a Hannah Montana glittery bear, Joey picked a camo-bear and Jonathan was happy with a basic bear. The girls then picked an outfit for their new friends, of course, being girls, they also had to get matching shoes for their animals. Joey was happy with a pair of jeans for his bear and Jonathan's bear left in his "birthday suit".
Life is such a fun road when you travel with a child (or 2 or 3) with Down Syndrome! :oD
I'm not sure if it was the busyness of the mall, the noise in the store or a combination of all of it, plus the fact she can be insecure and unsure in new situations, but she cried for the first few minutes. She semi-picked Hello Kitty as her animal to stuff, Rachel picked a Jonas Brothers dog, Gracie picked a Hannah Montana glittery bear, Joey picked a camo-bear and Jonathan was happy with a basic bear. The girls then picked an outfit for their new friends, of course, being girls, they also had to get matching shoes for their animals. Joey was happy with a pair of jeans for his bear and Jonathan's bear left in his "birthday suit".
Life is such a fun road when you travel with a child (or 2 or 3) with Down Syndrome! :oD
Saturday, October 3, 2009
3 0f 31 for 21
A Bill of Rights for Parents of Kids with Special Needs
This is part of a post that one of my blog friends posted. It really does hit the nail on the head regarding some of the feelings a parent has when they are raising a SPECIAL child. Not a "special needs child", the needs don't define the child, but a "child WITH special needs". I am blessed by God to be deemed worthy to raise such special children!
"Here are a few of the bullet points that hit home for me:
* We have the right to expect our kids to be seen for who they are as individuals, not as labels or diagnoses.
* We have a right to trust our instincts about our kids and realize that experts don't always know best.
* We have a right to ignore the remarks, questions and stares and not give explanations or excuses for why our children are the way they are.
* We have a right to choose alternative therapies for our kids.
* We have a right to wonder “What if…” every so often.
* We have a right to react to people’s ignorance.
* We have a right to not always have our child be the poster child for his/her disability and some days be just a child.
* We have a right to go through the grieving process and realize we may never quite be "over it."
* We have a right to hope for an empty playground so we don’t have to look into another child’s eyes and answer the question, “What’s wrong with him?”
* We have a right to talk about how great our kids are when people don’t get it.
* We have the right to not always behave as inspirational icons who never complain or gripe about the sometimes awful realities of raising a child with special needs.
* We have a right to get tired of people saying, as they give that sympathy stare, "I don't know how you do it."
* We have a right to wish that sometimes things could be easier.
* We have a right to cheer like crazy anytime our children amaze us—or weep like lunatics.
* We have a right to push, push and push some more to make sure our children are treated fairly by the world.
Written by Ellen, Max's Mama"
This is part of a post that one of my blog friends posted. It really does hit the nail on the head regarding some of the feelings a parent has when they are raising a SPECIAL child. Not a "special needs child", the needs don't define the child, but a "child WITH special needs". I am blessed by God to be deemed worthy to raise such special children!
"Here are a few of the bullet points that hit home for me:
* We have the right to expect our kids to be seen for who they are as individuals, not as labels or diagnoses.
* We have a right to trust our instincts about our kids and realize that experts don't always know best.
* We have a right to ignore the remarks, questions and stares and not give explanations or excuses for why our children are the way they are.
* We have a right to choose alternative therapies for our kids.
* We have a right to wonder “What if…” every so often.
* We have a right to react to people’s ignorance.
* We have a right to not always have our child be the poster child for his/her disability and some days be just a child.
* We have a right to go through the grieving process and realize we may never quite be "over it."
* We have a right to hope for an empty playground so we don’t have to look into another child’s eyes and answer the question, “What’s wrong with him?”
* We have a right to talk about how great our kids are when people don’t get it.
* We have the right to not always behave as inspirational icons who never complain or gripe about the sometimes awful realities of raising a child with special needs.
* We have a right to get tired of people saying, as they give that sympathy stare, "I don't know how you do it."
* We have a right to wish that sometimes things could be easier.
* We have a right to cheer like crazy anytime our children amaze us—or weep like lunatics.
* We have a right to push, push and push some more to make sure our children are treated fairly by the world.
Written by Ellen, Max's Mama"
Friday, October 2, 2009
2 of 31for 21
Today we had homeschool co-op. I love that my children with DS are so loved by everyone there. Same at church. They are included in as much as I or the children want them to be. I know I'm blessed.
I also feel that my children are a blessing to others. Every time our co-op or church family see our children, they immediately smile and come over to see the children and see what new things they are up to. Some people had never actually known anyone with DS before, now they know two ;o) .
I would like anyone that isn't familiar with children with DS to know that they are children first and just happen to have an extra chromosome.
I also feel that my children are a blessing to others. Every time our co-op or church family see our children, they immediately smile and come over to see the children and see what new things they are up to. Some people had never actually known anyone with DS before, now they know two ;o) .
I would like anyone that isn't familiar with children with DS to know that they are children first and just happen to have an extra chromosome.
Thursday, October 1, 2009
31 for 21
Well, it's October again, and that can only mean one thing, no, not fall, not Halloween, DOWN SYNDROME AWARENESS MONTH!!! This month I will, once again, attempt to blog all 31 days in Oct. in honor of all the wonderful people who have Down Syndrome, two of which happen to be my children and one who is my niece.
I will try to post a fact about Down Syndrome (DS), each day. I will label where I get that day's info. Today's facts come from Wikipedia.
"Down syndrome (the most common term in US English), Down's syndrome (standard in the rest of the English-speaking world), trisomy 21, or trisomy G is a chromosomal disorder caused by the presence of all or part of an extra 21st chromosome. It is named after John Langdon Down, the British doctor who described the syndrome in 1866. The disorder was identified as a chromosome 21 trisomy by Jérôme Lejeune in 1959. The condition is characterized by a combination of major and minor differences in structure. Often Down syndrome is associated with some impairment of cognitive ability and physical growth as well as facial appearance. Down syndrome in a baby can be identified with amniocentesis during pregnancy or at birth."
To me, DS is not a deficit, it is a special enhancement that not all get. My children with DS are such a blessing to me, they are fearfully and wonderfully made, perfect in every way.
Psa 139:14 I will praise thee; for I am fearfully [and] wonderfully made: marvellous [are] thy works; and [that] my soul knoweth right well.
I will try to post a fact about Down Syndrome (DS), each day. I will label where I get that day's info. Today's facts come from Wikipedia.
"Down syndrome (the most common term in US English), Down's syndrome (standard in the rest of the English-speaking world), trisomy 21, or trisomy G is a chromosomal disorder caused by the presence of all or part of an extra 21st chromosome. It is named after John Langdon Down, the British doctor who described the syndrome in 1866. The disorder was identified as a chromosome 21 trisomy by Jérôme Lejeune in 1959. The condition is characterized by a combination of major and minor differences in structure. Often Down syndrome is associated with some impairment of cognitive ability and physical growth as well as facial appearance. Down syndrome in a baby can be identified with amniocentesis during pregnancy or at birth."
To me, DS is not a deficit, it is a special enhancement that not all get. My children with DS are such a blessing to me, they are fearfully and wonderfully made, perfect in every way.
Psa 139:14 I will praise thee; for I am fearfully [and] wonderfully made: marvellous [are] thy works; and [that] my soul knoweth right well.
Wednesday, September 9, 2009
Location, Location, Location, Location
I read this on another blog and it really spoke to me, so thought I'd share it with you.
Saturday, August 29, 2009
I KNOW...totally no excuse!
No excuse for not blogging, other than vacation for the month of July and laziness and too much stuff going on in August. For now I have something I saw on a friend's blog, I loved it, so Renee said I could "borrow" it:
The Lord's Prayer
"Our Father Who Art In Heaven.
Yes?
Don't interrupt me. I'm praying.
But -- you called ME!
Called you? No, I didn't call you. I'm praying. Our Father who art in Heaven.
There -- you did it again!
Did what?
Called ME. You said, "Our Father who art in Heaven" Well, here I am. What's on your mind?
But I didn't mean anything by it. I was, you know, just saying my prayers for the day. I always say the Lord's Prayer. It makes me feel good, kind of like fulfilling a duty.
Well, all right. Go on.
Okay, Hallowed be Thy name.
Hold it right there. What do you mean by that?
By what?
By "Hallowed be Thy name"?
It means, it means ... good grief, I don't know what it means. How in the world should I know? It's just a part of the prayer. By the way, what does it mean?
It means honored, holy, wonderful.
Hey, that makes sense.. I never thought about what 'hallowed' meant before. Thanks. Thy Kingdom come, Thy will be done, on earth as it is in Heaven.
Do you really mean that?
Sure, why not?
What are you doing about it?
Doing? Why, nothing, I guess. I just think it would be kind of neat if You got control, of everything down here like You have up there. We're kinda in a mess down here you know.
Yes, I know; but, have I got control of you?
Well, I go to church.
That isn't what I asked you. What about your bad temper? You've really got a problem there, you know. And then there's the way you spend your money -- all on yourself. And what about the kind of books you read?
Now hold on just a minute! Stop picking on me! I'm just as good as some of the rest of those People at church!
Excuse ME.. I thought you were praying for my will to be done. If that is to happen, it will have to start with the ones who are praying for it. Like you -- for example.
Oh, all right. I guess I do have some hang-ups. Now that You mention it, I could probably name some others.
So could I.
I haven't thought about it very much until now, but I really would like to cut out some of those things. I would like to, You know, be really free.
Good. Now we're getting somewhere. We'll work together -- You and ME. I'm proud of you.
Look, Lord, if You don't mind, I need to finish up here. This is taking a lot longer than it usually does. Give us this day, our daily bread.
You need to cut out the bread.. You're overweight as it is.
Hey, wait a minute! What is this? Here I was doing my religious duty, and all of a sudden You break in and remind me of all my hang-ups.
Praying is a dangerous thing. You just might get what you ask for. Remember, you called ME -- and here I am. It's too late to stop now. Keep praying. ( pause ... ) Well, go on.
I'm scared to.
Scared? Of what?
I know what You'll say.
Try ME.
Forgive us our sins, as we forgive those who sin against us.
What about Ann?
See? I knew it! I knew You would bring her up! Why, Lord, she's told lies about me, spread stories. She never paid back the money she owes me... I've sworn to get even with her!
But -- your prayer -- What about your prayer?
I didn't -- mean it.
Well, at least you're honest. But, it's quite a load carrying around all that bitterness and resentment isn't it?
Yes, but I'll feel better as soon as I get even with her. Boy, have I got some plans for her. She'll wish she had never been born.
No, you won't feel any better. You'll feel worse. Revenge isn't sweet. You know how unhappy you are -- Well, I can change that.
You can? How?
Forgive Ann. Then, I'll forgive you; And the hate and the sin, will be Ann's problem -- not yours. You will have settled the problem as far as you are concerned.
Oh, You know, You're right. You always are. And more than I want revenge, I want to be right with You . (sigh). All right, all right . I forgive her.There now!
Wonderful! How do you feel?
Hmmmm. Well, not bad. Not bad at all! In fact, I feel pretty great! You know, I don't think I'll go to bed uptight tonight. I haven't been getting much rest, You know.
Yeah, I know. But, you're not through with your prayer, are you? Go on.
Oh, all right. And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil.
Good! Good! I'll do that. Just don't put yourself in a place where you can be tempted.
What do You mean by that?
You know what I mean.
Yeah. I know.Okay.
Go ahead. Finish your prayer.
For Thine is the kingdom, and the power, and the glory forever. Amen.
Do you know what would bring me glory? What would really make me happy?
No, but I'd like to know. I want to please You now.. I've really made a mess of things. I want to truly follow You... I can see now how great that would be. So, tell me . . . How do I make You happy?
YOU just did".
The Lord's Prayer
"Our Father Who Art In Heaven.
Yes?
Don't interrupt me. I'm praying.
But -- you called ME!
Called you? No, I didn't call you. I'm praying. Our Father who art in Heaven.
There -- you did it again!
Did what?
Called ME. You said, "Our Father who art in Heaven" Well, here I am. What's on your mind?
But I didn't mean anything by it. I was, you know, just saying my prayers for the day. I always say the Lord's Prayer. It makes me feel good, kind of like fulfilling a duty.
Well, all right. Go on.
Okay, Hallowed be Thy name.
Hold it right there. What do you mean by that?
By what?
By "Hallowed be Thy name"?
It means, it means ... good grief, I don't know what it means. How in the world should I know? It's just a part of the prayer. By the way, what does it mean?
It means honored, holy, wonderful.
Hey, that makes sense.. I never thought about what 'hallowed' meant before. Thanks. Thy Kingdom come, Thy will be done, on earth as it is in Heaven.
Do you really mean that?
Sure, why not?
What are you doing about it?
Doing? Why, nothing, I guess. I just think it would be kind of neat if You got control, of everything down here like You have up there. We're kinda in a mess down here you know.
Yes, I know; but, have I got control of you?
Well, I go to church.
That isn't what I asked you. What about your bad temper? You've really got a problem there, you know. And then there's the way you spend your money -- all on yourself. And what about the kind of books you read?
Now hold on just a minute! Stop picking on me! I'm just as good as some of the rest of those People at church!
Excuse ME.. I thought you were praying for my will to be done. If that is to happen, it will have to start with the ones who are praying for it. Like you -- for example.
Oh, all right. I guess I do have some hang-ups. Now that You mention it, I could probably name some others.
So could I.
I haven't thought about it very much until now, but I really would like to cut out some of those things. I would like to, You know, be really free.
Good. Now we're getting somewhere. We'll work together -- You and ME. I'm proud of you.
Look, Lord, if You don't mind, I need to finish up here. This is taking a lot longer than it usually does. Give us this day, our daily bread.
You need to cut out the bread.. You're overweight as it is.
Hey, wait a minute! What is this? Here I was doing my religious duty, and all of a sudden You break in and remind me of all my hang-ups.
Praying is a dangerous thing. You just might get what you ask for. Remember, you called ME -- and here I am. It's too late to stop now. Keep praying. ( pause ... ) Well, go on.
I'm scared to.
Scared? Of what?
I know what You'll say.
Try ME.
Forgive us our sins, as we forgive those who sin against us.
What about Ann?
See? I knew it! I knew You would bring her up! Why, Lord, she's told lies about me, spread stories. She never paid back the money she owes me... I've sworn to get even with her!
But -- your prayer -- What about your prayer?
I didn't -- mean it.
Well, at least you're honest. But, it's quite a load carrying around all that bitterness and resentment isn't it?
Yes, but I'll feel better as soon as I get even with her. Boy, have I got some plans for her. She'll wish she had never been born.
No, you won't feel any better. You'll feel worse. Revenge isn't sweet. You know how unhappy you are -- Well, I can change that.
You can? How?
Forgive Ann. Then, I'll forgive you; And the hate and the sin, will be Ann's problem -- not yours. You will have settled the problem as far as you are concerned.
Oh, You know, You're right. You always are. And more than I want revenge, I want to be right with You . (sigh). All right, all right . I forgive her.There now!
Wonderful! How do you feel?
Hmmmm. Well, not bad. Not bad at all! In fact, I feel pretty great! You know, I don't think I'll go to bed uptight tonight. I haven't been getting much rest, You know.
Yeah, I know. But, you're not through with your prayer, are you? Go on.
Oh, all right. And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil.
Good! Good! I'll do that. Just don't put yourself in a place where you can be tempted.
What do You mean by that?
You know what I mean.
Yeah. I know.Okay.
Go ahead. Finish your prayer.
For Thine is the kingdom, and the power, and the glory forever. Amen.
Do you know what would bring me glory? What would really make me happy?
No, but I'd like to know. I want to please You now.. I've really made a mess of things. I want to truly follow You... I can see now how great that would be. So, tell me . . . How do I make You happy?
YOU just did".
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